1 - Stubbornness and nervousness in children
The state of stubbornness and nervousness in children of the types of turbulent behavior,Which reflect the feelings of aversion to the child and the hatred of the people around him, This behavior may issue a child awareness and willingness, And may be issued unconsciously, so that his behavior in the form of habit practiced.
Child needs stubborn and nervous Of educators utmost attention and care,And not to surrender to the behavior of this troubled, But to speed up the treatment when it comes from a child,And not accustom to the achievement of demands of frequent crying and urgency,This behavior should not be rooted in the same child,And not imagine in his mind that consists of all members of the family are subject to whims and desires,Parents must therefore tame the child to obey them And gain the cherished behavior of the independent personality,It should be noted the seriousness of the behavior of stubbornness and nervousness; it is contagious among children,Thus this child becomes an example of a role model by the rest of the children.
And produces nervousness in the child, about the tightness felt,Or a problem that bothers him,Or a situation passed by, showing him in a loud scream,Or quarrels with his peers, or with those around him like his brothers and his parents.It is a manifestation of nerve in the child:Nibbling nails, or sucking fingers, Or the insistence of the child what he wants and strongly.
2 - The causes of stubbornness and nervousness in children
Stubbornness and nervousness have many reasons, Neuropathy in children has a satisfactory cause, And psychological reasons, and educational, social, and these reasons shares with stubbornness, Their reasons are as follows:
a - The pathological causes of nervousness
Thyroid disorders.
Gastrointestinal disorders.
Epilepsy.
b - The psychological causes of stubbornness and nervousness
the phenomenon of parents with this behavior or one, and imitate the child and his parents; It has a vivid picture of the behavior of the pension.
not to satisfy the desires of the child and needs of moderate and logical.
The cruelty of the family to the child and his abuse of the simplest grounds; The abuse may be verbal or insulting, and may actually be physical beating and abuse.
Pamper Overload for baby, And to meet all his wishes even if his requests are many and frequent; The child becomes accustomed to selfishness and self-love, and shows bad behavior when not fulfilling his desires.
Differentiation within the family in the treatment and preference of one of the others.
Family disturbance, lack of warmth, affection and compassion that the child needs at this stage.
restricting the movement of the child, and this restriction may be materially restricted; As narrow space of the house in which the child lives, Or a lot of antiques in the house that the child can not get close to them, It may be a restriction of another kind, namely moral restraint; Which is the lack of communication with the child or his axis, and hear his ideas and suggestions.
We will discuss in the next episode, how to deal with stubborn and nervous child to know the causes and motives and treatment
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