In the course of trying to show off to people on what you are not, I'll like to ask you a question, yes, YOU! Why are you so fake ?.
Is it because you are struggling to appear awesome?. Can’t you just be yourself?, Can’t you realise you are already awesome?.
Maybe you don't know, that a lot of people have get to know about your secret low life, but they will rather keep it to their self and wait for that time, when you'll be left with no choice than to reveal how fake you've lived your life.
Everybody already knows the history of those beautiful and classy pictures you update everyday on social media, we know that it comes from millions of selfies you take, which you later pick one, and edit it with all the photo editing apps in the world and then write a whole paragraph of hashtags and unrelated stories of how you love yourself. Just for you to get thousand of likes. And when one pic doesn’t get a said threshold of likes, you get stressed and disturbed.
Maybe you still don't know, that no one is actually interested about those times you spend yapping about how your live is awesome, or about how in love you are, or about how you had a good day. So, why do you waste your lives trying to be awesome in the virtual world, while in the physical real world, what you are is stressed, unhappy, worried, lazy, and to some extent useless?
Okay, you don't know you're useless! Yes you are useless, because all those time you waste trying to look happy, contented and high-living could actually be focused on achieving useful as well as meaningful things.
Some findings have proved that people living fake lives mostly ranges between age 20 - 45years old.
The fact still remains that the earlier stage of one's life can actually be referred and related to as crisis*. Especially when you are in your twenties, that is when your life is tend to be in a crisis. When you are facing a lot of challenges in finding out what you want to do with your life. A crisis of finding out who you want to be. When you tend to be facing crisis of lacking money, needing love, and even companionship. The whole world doesn’t really believe in you or understand you. It is a major life crisis.
The best thing you can ever do for yourself at the early days of your life is finding solutions to those crisis. You should be finding ways to solve the problems in your world. Bringing up ideas and ways to make tomorrow better as much as kicking out bad leadership and retrogressive ideas.
Instead of doing all this, all you can do is building on mediocrity.
Narcissism breeds cynicism while Cynicism breeds mediocrity.
You begin to pretend that you are so cool, faking it so much to an extent that people believe it. All you want is to be big, so bad that you forget you are not even near been big at all, and instead of acting and working on being great, you lie to yourself and the innocent people around you.
Then, when the time comes you realise you aren’t big yet. You realize you aren’t what you have been faking all this time. But by the time you reach the dawn of this realisation, it is too late already. Then you become so sceptical of yourself and start to regretting the wasted time, the faked moments and the stupid parties so much that you'll give up on yourself as well as giving up to just existing. What a Mediocre lives.
You better should ask yourself if you still want to continue to live a mediocre life?, such that when your time on earth is getting to it's end, you realise that you’ve done nothing but fake it with your friends and lie about your life and even criticizing those that are actually doing something.
Now is the right time for you to get up and become a real person. You should notice the world and the opportunities that you could use. Get ready, have dreams and do something to achieve them.
Love your friends for as real as they have believed you. Cut ties with fools, those who add no value to your life and follow your dreams for real.
If all you've want is to be rich, be rich for real. Do something meaningful with your life .
Do something and stop to force your richness by spamming peoples that trust and believe in you with pictures of cash and “we be balling” captions.
Because living a fake life will always limit you to a low life which will inturn render your life as nothing. There is so much to life than living in pretence.... Be yourself, that’s what this world needs.
YOU, YOU AND YOU........ BE GOOD