I HATE arrogant doctors! Do you have another option on doctors? If NOT, make him sign a paper to the effect that he will do what YOU say! The cord cutting delay I have never heard of before, BUT; You want it, and THAT settles it. He is selling a service, and you are the consumer; remind him of that!
The Bilirubin is a common problem with babies. My Son had to relax under the light for several days. IT IS NOT a dangerous condition; and he needs to shut up! It is his job to point out what he thinks is best, but doctors make mistakes; and you will be long term responsible for this kid, not him!
Tell him to do what you say, or refer to another doctor who will! >:(
I had a doctor that wanted to cut on my back, in the wrong spot. I refused, and it took me a year to find the right doctor. He did it right.
RE: Prenatal Conflict