The strategy of harsh criticism prevents the person from making mistakes, which is in odds with the purpose of life. Life is full of mistakes and you can't find anyone who doesn't make them everyday. People like to point out other people's mistakes to run away from their own. Running away from mistakes is the easy way out than to take responsibility. When you become your worst critic you deprive yourself of the joy that people find in the chaos of life.
What is the chaos of life?
Everything in this world suggests that it is run by chaos, a chaos that orders itself as it goes. This suggests that when you try to find a solution for your problems and you can't, it is most probably the overall chaos that hovers around everyone and when someone who is smart enough finds a gateway out of all this chaos towards a solution for a problem, means that you can try your best to find that gateway yourself. It is not hard, it just takes sometime and requires focus and attention. When you put your attention and absolute focus on solving your problem, you will definitely succeed. It is important to remember at all times that nothing beats pure focus.
The joys that we find in the chaos is incompatible to the order we find in being the critic
Makings mistakes brings out those routes that do not work in order to reach the order that works for a while. So the irony is this that those who are not much critical reach the order that works for them faster, since they make mistakes and through those mistakes, they clear away the chaos in order to reach the order of their desire. On the other hand, those who are their worst critic, will reach this order late because they try not to make mistakes and so the road will not become clear for a long time and they are usually followers of those who made the mistake and came victorious.
How do you clear your road without damaging yourself too much through mistakes?
First, you have the option to choose people and situations that will guarantee you become a better person. If someone or something does not give you and teach you something about life that you feel you need, leave them be and choose your own battle and have the courage to leave them. It is because if you don’t this, it will make your situation stagnant. Second, you find those people and situations that add value to the value of yourself as a person and yo your environment as a whole.
How do you find people who add value to you?
Discover and know your interests and know that in what area you should be beneficial to your society and that you want to progress. Then, you join those people who share the same value as you and cling yourself to the one who has more value than you in that same area of interest and try to imitate their behavior. By doing that you understand their secrets for success and the correct way to behave. Then, correct the parts that you consider will make it better and in this way make it your own and put your own mark on it by adapting it as your usual current of behavior. Don't be a copycat for long. Do this temporarily, until you understands how things work. Good Luck!
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