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I was returning from work one time last year and was following a man behind. He passed a place where female shoes were displayed for sale. Later he came back to buy one.
My instinct told me that he was getting that shoe for his wife. I was really wowed. I saw a man that loves and cherishes his wife that thinks about his wife, a man that wants his wife to be happy, feel valued and important.
Someone may argue that what if the man is not getting the shoe for his wife but his side chic or girlfriend? Who he is getting the gift for does not really matter here, what matters here is the thing that prompted the buying of the shoe, it's the thought behind it. The thought of love when you love someone, you will find ways to make the person happy.
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As a married man, when last did you get your wife a gift? Probably, everyday you passes where they're selling things that your wife will really love but it never occur to you once to get her a surprise gift. You always turn your eyes.
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As a wife, when last did you get a surprise gift for your husband? You're not the only one that deserves all the love and attention and showering of gifts, your husbands too deserve that too.
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These little things are things that make tremendous impact in relationships. It shows you love your partner and wants his or her happiness, it shows you think about him or her; it shows the person is important to you; you value and cherish him or her.
This makes the love the person has for you to grow deeper and stronger. It also strengthens the bond between you both.
Always get your partner surprise gifts. Always give him or her surprises. Let your union be filled with surprises.
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Occasionally, drop romantic notes in his pocket or her bag telling them how much you love and value them, how important they're to your life, the tremendous blessings they've brought into your life since you met them etc.
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I tell you, no one will get tired of such a union. Everyday, they'll look out to get another surprise. If possible, let everyday be a Christmas!
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