When you're 21 you're eager to change reality, to work all nights long with a laptop on your knees developing some crazy projects and listening to Imagine Dragons, though there's a but: you live in a small flat sharing your room with a 10-year-old brother. F*ck.
The difference between my mindset and that of my parents is enormous: they can't put up with my falling asleep at 5 a.m. and waking up at noon. They call it laziness. My being inactive in the morning is called selfishness and the time I spend developing the website, submittimg posts and writing another chapter of my book is blamed for being my asylum from housework. Actually that difference in seeing the world causes a great number of problems, namely a fall in productivity and lack of motivation. There's nothing wrong about being different, still it is wrong to make the difference a problem.
The productivity fall is actually the greatest reason why I began to look for some kind of separate living area and the only way out seems to be renting a small flat. It's extremely difficult to be creative, hard-working and satisfied with what you do when you live under the burden of other people's interests and affairs; you have to curb your creativeness not to bar their activity as you live in a family. The battles for independence began when I entered university and began to work as a tutor though the money I earned was not enough for me to rent a room and to make both ends meet.
Thanks Steemit I have an opportunity to pay for the rental now. Actually independence is some kind of the best investment as it boosts your productivity and performance immediately and you kan live according to your own rules. We don't choose parents and relatives though we choose friends and our future husbands and wives. That's extremely important to choose people you feel comfortable with to build a strong family that will grant you with energy and inspiration rather than with negative emotions and stress.
*Scrolling the rental ads in the Internet*
Make good choices.
Yours,
Anastasia