Set rules for yourself
Do you live by whatever comes your way?
Are you the type that is often sway around by wind?
Some believe whatever happened to them is meant to be and cannot be changed.
To them, life is by chance. Do you live in such arena?
People who live by chance are like Autumn leaves blown by the wind with no particular direction.
These set of people are clueless about what their destination would be. Sleeping and waking up to find themselves wherever they are dumped by the wind - blindfolded like clogs on top of the Lagoon preventing it from the light.
When you live by chance, you have no choice but to accept whatever comes your way either good or bad. To you, life is more or a luck and ill-luck. So you tend to accept fossils a lot of times.
Refuse compromise
You gotta have to stop living by accident and decide what happens to you by yourself.
Set a standard that you want. Be intentional about
Luck in life, is not consistent (1 out of 10), so rule it out.
if you want success, be intentional about it. Likewise if you desire failure, be intentional about it.