I see the form shaping up to good, toned muscles. Great job. I commend you on your effort and being an inspiration for all of us. Yes, we must be good to ourselves. Self love is the key. To take the time to take care of "me." I'm no good to anyone if I am not happy and not pursuing my passions. Being true to yourself is the key. From the pictures, I can see that you have taken the time to focus on you and therefore, you are able to give of yourself to others and be their shining light