Man is a unique being. Allah Almighty created man with a perfect component; body, soul, mind and heart. Amongst some of these elements, care for the most sensitive. Yes, the human heart is sensitive.
The human heart will be shocked when faced with a big and new thing in life. It takes a little time to establish the heart in those circumstances.

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Hard work also needs to be done to ensure the readiness of the heart. Bodies, souls and minds play a role desperately for a solid resolve.
Why is the heart so hard to conquer? The heart is one of the elements in human beings who can not lie or lie. The human heart will always tell the truth. He will always reveal the truth, even though human reason and body deny or cover up.

Thus, it is not wrong when the Prophet of the Holy Prophet. said in his sabd that in man there is a piece of meat. When the meat is good, the whole body will be good; and if a piece of meat is broken, then the whole body will be damaged. Yes, he is the heart.

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Below is something you can do to make your heart always calm in the face of any thing

• Closer to the Creator God
• Loving orphans and the poor
• Looking at the person below you, do not look up
• Maintain familial relationships
• Always Says Honest
• Dare to take risks for what you do
• Maintain view
• Away from debt
• Not dependent on others
• Always think positive
• Do not remember the past
• Do not hold a grudge in your heart

Do the above with all your abilities, to create a mood that is always quiet even though the problem always comes.

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On the other hand, the heart is also very difficult to be calmed when he is experiencing shock. When the heart is disappointed, all the elements in the human body will be affected. Reason seems to run in place. For a moment he will feel confused to perform its function; distinguish good and evil, sin and reward. The soul feels empty. The body droops weakly and powerless to do anything. It all happens just because of the heart.

There is an expression "the tongue of men is sharper than the sword", why is that? Because the target of tongue attack is the heart. When the heart is hurt, it is very difficult to recover and raise it from adversity.

The human heart is like glass, if the glass is cracked or broken, then no one can reunite it. Even if it can, surely a crack mark will still be visible.

Therefore, as Muslims we are encouraged to always keep the heart. Clarity and purity of heart are essential to maintain.

Because staining the heart is like killing yourself. Let the hearts bloom and blossom in the middle of the field of divine love. Spreads fragrant scent of piety. Refreshing views with colorful obedience.

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If the heart looks withered, refresh it with the Qur'an and Dhikrullah. If the liver is arid, flush it with the water of pleasure. If the heart cries, wipe the tears with the caress of God's love. Yes, only by returning to Allah SWT. the heart can regain calm.

Teach your heart to accept all the predestined destiny. Because indeed, the scenario of Allah SWT. exquisite. Behind all perceived hearts, there are divine wisdom. As humans, we can only obey and believe in the truth of it all.

Because only Allah SWT. who knows all things.