Jealousy is something that is natural, and worried that fear of losing it will be felt by everyone who already knows the feeling of love and love. Yes, all that is permissible and legitimate you do, as long as you don't overdo it.
What do you mean by that? Do not be jealous blind, do not let jealousy and fear of loss that you feel turn you into a humiliating human.
Because not a few in the present time are jealous of the overdone couple, who are afraid of losing their pride, until they are sad, until they continue to be sad, and have bad prejudices. Na'udzubillah
Anyone will feel afraid of losing and feeling jealous, if the love is already great, but make sure you are not overdoing it.
That is, keep in mind that all you have to envy is God, don't let your jealousy in humans outweigh your jealousy to God.
Because it's better to lose love because of God, than to lose God because of love, is there ??? It must be a lot, and hopefully you are not such a person.
Do not be so afraid of losing, all kinds of things are done without wise consideration and even bring hate to God.
Because, sometimes there are those of us who are so afraid of losing and feeling jealous, so they are willing to be humiliated in front of God is only a word of love, even though that is not very good.
In essence, no matter how much our love and affection for our lovers, especially those who are lawful, try not to feel jealous. Take care of the heart to remain wise, and surrender everything to God.
Because if you have chosen God as the greatest love care, then don't worry that you love you are not captivated by you.
if God is guarding, then the guarding will be perfect. And of course your worry won't disturb your calm.
And if you currently feel jealous, then know that feeling is something that is natural, as long as you do not let your jealousy bring jealousy to God.
Do not let you eliminate the love of God, only to pursue love that you think is good, because God is very displeased when you are too in love with His servants.