Why am I losing in my life always?

Why are you losing?

The science.

Here i would suggest you one activity, just grab a piece of paper and a pen. Now start writing the places and events where you think you have lost or are losing. After doing this you will get to know that the amount of whining you are doing is way more than what the actual scene is.

Now you must be thinking that why am i so confident without knowing what your actual situation is?

It's because the simple human philosophy of consciousnesses on matters of failure.

Our brain simply overthinks our failure and there is a vicious cycle where you feel bad again and again for the same thing. Our brain behaves exactly the same after a success also, but there we again and again relish the thought of being successful and never ponder over or complain for this.

So basically you are not always losing, you are just counting your losses more than once.

Thanks!