There is one extremely powerful aspect which decides whether it will take the direction you wanted or a completely another one.
Smiling helps!
By „it“ I mean your day, month, a year or your whole life. But what about this powerful something?
It's your everyday companion. You can't see it, smell or even hear it. Only you are aware of it and understand it clearly. Something unmeasurable but very clear to you. This powerful thing is nothing more or less than your thoughts.
They decide everything in your life. How your day starts, what you eat, what you do, what you don't do (you shouldn't underestimate this one), how you work, the interactions in your social life, your outfit, your creations, your plans, etc. Just E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G in your life.
Your thoughts even decide what you think. This is a very powerful knowledge. Remember this.
You have around 65.000 thoughts daily. Let´s make it simple and divide them into good (positive)
and bad (negative) ones. If you wake up and start to think about problems, lack of money or social difficulties, every day, every week, etc. your life will become what you thought about all the time.
Think, think, think.
You have to control your thoughts to manage to achieve a high percentage of good thoughts, daily. Every day. After some weeks it will happen automatically. But till then, focus further and be aware of the right direction. Often, it will be hard to get along with it, because the news on TV is always bad, the difficulties are in every corner, the future is maybe unknown in some situations. But act just if the negative situations are challenges. By doing this you will notice that things will be much easier.
Imagine a scenario where you are afraid to act as you wish. Then, what is the worst case? Further, don't take things too personally. This will help to transform your thoughts into positive ones.
Be aware what you think about, you will speak them out.
Be aware what you speak out, you will act like that.
Be aware how you act, it will become your character.
You see, with your thoughts everything begins and ends. So, don't miss to think about it!
Stay positive, it's easy!
Have a nice night and day :)