Yeah I think so. I mean if I knew the future then wouldn't I not put the time and energy into something that got me there because I know I'll end up there?... therefore changing where I'll be. Does that make sense. Like if I knew I was going to date this guy then I wouldn't give anyone else a chance or really worry about ending up single because I know I'm going to date this person. But when if I needed to give this one guy a chance and what if we agree to meet at this place and when I got there he stood me up, but this other guy, the one I end up dating, was there and starts to talk to me.