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Hi, Steemians
We know you're tired of hearing every girl ask whether or not she looks fat . Allow us to defend ourselves here.
Sexy is a state of mind, Tell that to the girl who can't fit into her favorite pair of skinny jeans anymore, or to that plus-sized pal of yours who stands awkwardly around her size 0 girlfriends. We're sure sexy is just a state of mind for them ( sense the sarcasm ?). Sexy is an attitude, yes, but you can't really blame us if our confidence level goes down whenever the number on the scale goes up.
Fact is not every woman was born with Heidi Klum genes. We go on diet like its a religion, count calories whenever we can, and talk non-stop about our weight. Why ? because we've got every reason to.
Hear us out and Get tips on How to handle your Girl's Weight Woes with Ease and Care.
Tactic 1 - We want to wear whatever we want and look good in it.
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Not being able to wear a bikini with pride and without unsightly things spilling out is the kind of thing that makes us feel sad and grumpy. Every girl typically feels the pressure to look good come swimsuit season but were just as anal about how we look all year around. Like most girls, fashion is a major reason why weight matters. I get conscious of my body every morning, but the moment I walk out the door, I want to feel great about myself.
So, what's a guy to do when his girl is feeling conscious about a few extra pounds? '' Just tell her she looks absolutely perfect and mean it ''
Tactic 2 - We want to look Good for you
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- The fact that were making an effort to maintain a flattering silhouette is one way of showing you we want to be the best version of ourselves for you. The next time your girl goes on and on about feeling fat , My advice: Listen to what she's saying and what she's not saying . Is she feeling bad about pigging out on pizza and beer on your last movie night? Offer to whip up a healthy feast o the next one. or think of activities the two of you could make a date out of, like running or playing sports.
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But if she's just low on self-esteem, reassuring words are the best way to go,Listen intently and respond, don't brush her off. Tell her she's beautiful as she is, inside and out, and that one day when you both grow old and your bodies grow bigger, you will love her nonetheless. If that doesn't do the trick, we don't know what will.
Tactic 3 - We are Prone to Comparing ourselves to other Women.
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- Trust us, every girl battles with her weight. There are way more of us unhappy about our figures than those who can wear a bikini with killer confidence. It's a guilty pleasure (and a bad habit ) of ours to pit ourselves against other women, be it our best friend, your ex, or Angelin Jolie. That's just the way things go in the girl world, and this is the kind of thing boyfriends are subjected to by default. We admit it's not easy to be in your place, so its best you know how to handle this situation with care.When your girl asks you if a certain lady is hotter than her, a simple '' of course not '' will usually get you off the hook.
Tactic 4 - We want to feel more Secure about Ourselves
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- Nothing takes a blow on our self -esteem than feeling thick at the sides. But, all we really want from you is to understand, especially if our weight issues stem from something more personal. My advice: Give her compliments and praises her when she shares victories with you, like finishing a good workout. and if she really wants to work on her body, why not accompany her? This will make her feel that you support her.
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Is it our fault we just want to look as lust-worthy as possible? We have said it before and well say it again, every girl battles with her weight and this battle we are dead-set on winning.
Thank you for reading Steemians ...... until next time... Salamat ka.ayo <3
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