One of the conditions for achieving any goal, That what it seeks to achieve is a realistic and achievable goal,
Otherwise, your pursuit is just an illusion and a waste of effort and time,
We are always full of our desires and desires,
And exhausting ourselves in order to collect what is impossible to collect,
So awareness of the reality of life was very important to make us more satisfied, satisfied and less depressed.
-Immortality Forever
Many of us forget that life is only a short journey. As long as we breathe, we think that death is only for others, so some lives are lost in things that could have made their lives happier and more comfortable had they been convinced that the possibility of immortality is impossible.
Being preoccupied with work, worrying about the future or about others is not something you deserve to give more than its size. Always remember that God does not cost more than you can and relieve the burdens that exhaust you and delight you in enjoying this short journey.
-Looking for the best is stressful
Do you want to be the best at all time?
Like the best job, the best kind of car, the best neighbors or friends..,
So you tire yourself too much.
"the happy people don't have the best things of life, but they grateful to which life will give them"
"If you look for perfection, you'll never be content."
Getting the best is not always at hand, otherwise it would be possible to make our lives perfect flawless,
You have to be satisfied and satisfied with what you have, so long as what is lacking does not affect the course of your life or disturb you.
-Change Others
"No one is perfect, and all the sons of Adam are in a state of imperfection, and if one of us insists on the perfection and idealism of the parties that he wants to deal with, he really asks the impossible and ends up becoming emotionally and socially isolated. "
If you can influence someone, that does not mean that everyone is ready to change their print or ideas, so it is better to break any discussion or debate with those who appear stubborn or with no avail in your attempts to change his style and behavior to his own conviction and unwillingness to change.
-Some relationships, don't return as they were
It may happen and meet an old friend after a long period of time to find that his behavior or principles that you love and composed is no longer, and this is normal you need to understand him This has passed your absence experiences and circumstances may be the reason for changing personality, and change behavior.
Or you may be betrayed or tricked by someone close to you, trying to tolerate and restore this relationship if the other party confesses his guilt, but often will remain cautious towards this person is the master of the situation.
and in this says Ali ibn Abi Talib :
"And be careful to keep the hearts of harm,and the Back after dissonance be difficult."
-Satisfying everyone.
you can't please everyone , the best thing you can do is just to believe in yourself and do what you think is right for you.
-Cannot restore the past.
The memory is filled with archival images that may be happy or sad about the past,
Whatever you have to smile for the happy moments that you have passed and learn from your previous failures,
Scalping in the memories of the past will miss a lot of the beauty of the present,
If your childhood is happy make your youth better,
And remember that your present day is also going to involve and leave without return, so you do not live well!