I chose to stay with you not because you are perfect, but because you keep the trust I give even with the myriad of shortcomings you have.Mahatma Gandhi says "Love never demands, love always gives, love always suffers, without ever laments, without ever grudge".
Choosing to fall in love is ready to give. The most precious treasure is trust. Trust to the couple is so expensive that it can never be paid by a traitor.
In a relationship, trust is the initial foundation. Without a belief it would be quite impossible for a relationship to stand firm. Very many attempts and temptations can be a storm that breaks down a building of love.
*Why is trust relationship so important?
Some say that belief like a paper, once crushed will never be intact again. There is always a trace left behind, and it can never be restored to its original shape.
So, before deciding to build a relationship with someone. Make sure you choose the right person. He who can keep the trust you give. The reason is certainly very simple.
The rich can go bankrupt
When you are a companion just because of his wealth. Then you can only survive as long as he remains rich. If he falls poor does he survive? That's still a big question mark.
The beautiful / cute will be old
When choosing another one just because it looks beautiful / cute. Then you will be joined with a more beautiful / cute. Although pretty / cute is relative, depending on who issued and with whom to compare it.
But out there you can just meet someone who has a face that matches a pretty / saucy password according to you. This will certainly be a problem. Will you turn away or not?
Smart people can be senile
Choosing a partner based on his intelligence is not guaranteed happiness. You may be very proud of the intelligence that controls your partner. But remember that it can happen forever.
As time goes on, brain performance begins to diminish. Intelligence can be decreased. Not to mention exacerbated by the rapid technological developments. Smart people have sprung up with a variety of inventions.
Then is it still able to survive?
You just need to be able to keep the trust you give. Maybe he's just a poor man but you can get him to work hard. Maybe he is not beautiful / cute but can be used how to care for themselves. Maybe he is not smart but diligent to learn together.
If you are thinking of looking for the perfect person. Then you will spend a lot of your time. Not necessarily also the people you find receive receive you. Do not make love so complicated, because ideals are simple.
Sometimes the human heart is too fragile to fight the pain. Not strong enough to forgive betrayal. It's too easy to make decisions when ego and emotions play their part.