In everyday social naturally if we are not always coupled with intimacy with friends and family, relatives, business colleagues, and so forth. Sometimes there is a small or big clash. Often we also meet with people who behave negatively, such as happy humiliation, interfere with personal affairs, cut off the conversation, destroying happiness, destroying dreams, fun laughing, and so forth. These conflicts and negative attitudes can cause extraordinary pain.
Not every one of us has a big heart to let go of that hurt. However, try to release the pain as soon as possible before poisoning our souls. The experience throughout my life provides a valuable lesson that keeping hurt only causes losses and difficulties.
Talking about the effort to escape from heartache of course we must first clear our hearts to be able to see the problem clearly. Correct yourself, clean the liver from dirt including jealousy, envy, syrup, stingy, nasty, and so forth. Make sure that you are not the wrong person or too sensitive, so that others do something natural but for you is already hurt.
If your conscience can make sure there is nothing wrong with you, then the way you can get off the hook is to smile sincerely and always show a cheerful face to release the hurt to the person who has hurt your heart. Because without them realize their bad attitude actually sharpen your conscience more sharp. You already feel how badly insulted, instigated, maligned, exploited, and so forth, so you will not dare to do the same bad attitude. Indirectly they have caused the goodness in your conscience more beautiful shine in your attitude and deeds.
Try to be nice as a form of gratitude to someone who has caused you hurt. After all, they've inspired you to educate yourself and your offspring not to do the same. So, your self and your offspring will be more controlled to not do something that can hurt others.
Imagine in your mind that the people who have hurt you have a huge share of your determination and ability. They've made you have a strong and patient person. So, you do not easily falter facing situations as difficult as anything in an effort to pursue ideals and become a great person.