How to find your professional vocation without risk of being wrong?
To answer this question as completely as possible, I propose to address two topics:
- The first very concrete and pragmatic is the setting up of a new project ...
- Then the next rather of the spiritual register, more philosophical, taking into account the good attitude towards the Life.
Step 1 - Concretely
A professional vocation has systematically and solid basis, the axis of our passions. Without it, it's a job, not a vocation! A job is very good, you say, but if your wish is to vibrate fully, to spend your days crossed by the feeling of being in your place, a job will not be enough! You will need a vocation and therefore, to find your passions ...
Why ? and quite simply because passion is built around pleasures, things that inspire us and make us want to live. In other words, and in implication, our strengths and our natural talents. In addition, if you wish to practice this activity for a long time, you will need to like it to be able to overcome the small moments of blues without discouraging you.
Conversely, it is not possible to "Kiffer" his job if it annoys us, or if our only motivation lies in the simple fact of making money! Let's be clear, that's losing your life trying to win! Waste! Nothing else.
So "oust" a priori and erroneous beliefs: all your passions can become exciting jobs. POINT BAR ;-). This is the first very concrete step to put in place: to believe that it is possible. In the opposite case, our professional activities inevitably involve more constraints and obligations, with, as you may live, the wait for the weekend, which passes too quickly and ends with the blues of Sunday night ... Sad end ... Some will say, "It's life" ... Even worse: sad end ...
So not to fall into these clichés of the collective unconscious:
List your ten passions, and take care of the first 2-3,
Go see on the internet how do others to live from this same passion (or similar),
Do the same, with your sauce, and your image (by adapting and creating).
Step 2 - The right attitude
Then comes the right attitude! That is to say our philosophy in relation to Life!
Here I have two options:
Either I am alone in front of the life in which I must learn to fight .., positioning which obliges me and to wait for me for the worst because, it is well known: "one will not make me a gift"! ... I must then control my environment and beware of others ... hum hum ...
Either I'm not just a "pawed ego", and my presence here is deeper than just surviving and making my mark ... In this very different approach, the experiences are not nasty, not more than the Terrans, and everything becomes conducive to my evolution and my growth. More cool…
From this point of view, that you can adopt or reject, the notion of failure does not exist, on the contrary, because these "non-successes" allow me to find my right place, which itself even evolves permanently ... So these are OPPORTUNITIES!
So of course, Mr Ego is not happy ... it's true ... and that's precisely why personal development exists, and that it allows us, among other things, to open ourselves to something else, to a another vision of the world, to develop our intuition and our more spiritual sense ... All this Mr Ego understands nothing, so we learn to orient ourselves differently and stop listening to him: develop confidence in life and learn to live our lives as a fulfilling path;).
In summary:
What are my ten passions, my biggest dreams? Allow yourself to believe it and implement it,
To walk on oneself: accompaniment / formations to refine one's way,
Consider failures as opportunities through trust in Life.
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