SITUATION
Well this is something complicated. What happens is that for a long time I have not gotten along with one of my brothers. He is irresponsible and crazy because of the use of drugs. He is one of those unbearable people. It even bothers me outside of my room. He says crazy things behind my door and stays there when I'm at home. Anyway, it makes my life miserable bothering me all the time. What can I do in this situation? My mother does not do anything, she just gives him money. HELP.
ADVICE
Dealing with complicated family members is one of the most complex tests we have in life. On the one hand, the love we have for them does not allow us to get away from them easily. On the other hand, being with them can cause us great harm. However, there is always a way to keep the peace and let things settle over time.
You must understand that your brother is what is considered a toxic person. He has lost his peace and holds a resentment towards some person or situation that hurt him in the past. This makes him retaliate with the people he has by his side to vent his frustration.
Each person has the task of rediscovering their lost peace and for this we need support from stronger people. If you feel you do not have the strength to deal with your brother, just help him when the opportunity presents itself. You can not disturb your peace for another person when you are not ready.
When your brother is attacking you directly, do not confront him and divert your attention to the people to whom you can help. Your mother needs your support, she must be suffering a lot because of this situation. Allow each person to deal with your brother as they have decided and offer your support to those who you can support. Your brother needs a lot of compassion from everyone to heal.
Time will help solve many things if instead of complaining about your situation you use it to analyze who you are as a person. Maybe in the future you will have enough strength to help your brother more effectively. For now, you can trust that many problems are solved with time and with faith in a better tomorrow. Try not to be an obstacle to your brother's blessings.
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