In my own life I come across again and again 3 MINDSETS which help me to overcome obstacles........
1.) let go (the feeling not to attach too much - or in other words eventually we need to let go anyway)
2.) be patient (time does not matter - if you approach life that your soul will exist beyond death - makes you relaxed)
3.) follow my dreams (it is amazing to realize that everything you want eventually will happen - so be careful what you wish for)