Recently, I've been brainstorming (this happens a lot since I'm a thinking, as well as a worrying being, not really healthy if you're asking, but this time, it's for good). I've decided I need to switch phases in life, I've grown old in this one, and need to work on launching me into the next.
Then I started searching. How have I explored the stages of my life so far? I got listing the things I had wanted to do as a young teenager, down to this day. It wasn't such a long list, but I realized I have not gotten half way through them. I jumped choices, wishes, dreams... I overlooked what I thought was insignificant, did some things right, many others wrong, and got me here.
Now I'm about dumping this phase, but sadly, I never really lived it. I'm happy I did many things wrong, happier I got a few right, but my only regret, is for the things I could, but didn't do. I lost the opportunities, busying myself with things I labelled more important, but in the end, don't feel as important anymore.
I can carry the list over to the new one, and get them done, but the gaps in the past are still bare. Therefore, time lost, is never recovered, it's simply lost. Though I'm really happy and proud of this woman I am today, I could have been happier and more proud, but I have lost a huge time in my life, and I'm exclusively responsible for that.
So Sweethearts, are there huge or petty things you'd really love to do but feel they ain't important for now, or you're too old or too young for them, or maybe there's still time? Well guess what? That it exists in your thoughts means you can do it, and however busy you are, you always have time for what/whom you want to have time for, and time lost is life lost.
No more gaps now, make that list, fill the spaces with those little details that will make you even a little more fulfilled, spend time to invent your happiness and make it exist. There may sometimes be other chances to make them happen, but the feeling they should expel might be stale then.
Unarguably, no two people are the same, but still, you exhibit some characteristics/attributes other people do, and those things you consider fun but unimportant, may be the very things that complete your own unique circle. If you lose them, you might as well have lost you!
I Love You!
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