The poor always think that they are poor and have less money, and they think they should spend as little as possible. They even think that they shouldn’t spend extra money on other things other than their basic necessities so that they can save money and no longer be poor.
But this idea of not spending money is the greatest scourge of poverty. There are four things that you should spend money, or you will be poor forever.
1) Invest in yourself.
You will always be your biggest capital. If you are not worth anything, you don’t have the capital to talk about "out of poverty".
Many people have a big misunderstanding about investing in ourselves, that is, they only invest for their inner, and thinks that the outer is not important.
In fact, there are three layers to invest in ourselves.
The first layer starts from the outside, you don’t have to be avant-garde, but at least have a set of neat and clean clothes that make you look comfortable, give a good impression. This is your decency, to not let people lose the interest to search for your inner because of unruly appearance.
The second layer is the physical exercise. Have a strong physique is to make the foundation of great events, no matter how poor or how busy your work is, you must make time to exercise.
The third layer is ability, which is our inner. If appearance is the entrance to success, the body is the ladder to climb upward, and the ability is the carpenter who decides on how long the ladder will be.
If you want to earn money, learn to make yourself valuable first.
But how can you be valuable? Professional knowledge, compressive ability, psychological quality, big picture and so on, these things constitute our ability.
Only by willingly spending money on this, you can have a qualitative leap, you can turn ore to gold.
To invest in yourself is to gilded yourself!
Only by glided yourself, you can stand higher and look further so that you can get out of poverty, find the opportunity to get rich and the ability to seize opportunities!
If you are not willing to invest in yourself, then you are destined to be poor.
2) Be grateful to our parents
Our parents gave birth to us and taught us to be a better person.
Spending money on your parents is not only about giving back the grace of nurturing but also remind ourselves to be grateful at any time.
Sometimes we will have hard time in life, but no matter how poor we are, we cannot let our parents suffer.
There is not necessarily a lot of money, but you must do what you can.
When a person doesn’t know how to be grateful to the parents, he won’t even thank those friends and family who have helped him.
If there is no kindness in the heart of the person, even if he looks open-minded, optimistic, gentle and cordial, his nature is indifferent and selfish.
When a person has no feeling, he will do anything, such a person has no bottom line, people will be far away from him.
Only if you know how to be grateful, others are willing to make friends with you and do business with you, they will help you when you are having a hard time.
The more friends you have, the way forward is smoother, there is also a higher possibility of wealth.
3) Money to educate children
Today, there are still many people think that as long as has the experience of full practice, the social experience can be an alternative to education.
So if the child did not study seriously, the parent felt that it doesn’t matter, poor child education environment, they felt that early into the society can still live well.
But everyone should understand that nearly 20 years of schooling, the most learned from the school are not those complex knowledge, but the ability to learn and keep thinking habits.
This makes it easier for us to see the essence through the phenomenon and to explore opportunities that others cannot detect.
Children's education cannot be poor, children are the future of the family. If young people's thinking cannot be advanced and without foresight, even if there is a moment of coincidence rich, who else can hold the wealth?
4) Money for consolidating relationship
As the saying goes, money can not change for the true feelings, but the feelings without the money will not be strong enough.
No matter how intimate the relationship, it needs to be supported by certain material conditions, so that the happiness of the family can be maintained.
Willing to spend money doesn’t necessary means spend big and extravagant, nor is it scrape to a penny, but should spend when needed, and should not spend when not needed.
During the anniversary, buy a small gift, when there is something to celebrate, occasionally "luxury" is fine, this is to regulate the family and strengthen the relationship.
Because a deep relationship always returns to the trivial life of daily necessities, what can support these trivial life is to spend money.
If you have a happy family, your career won’t be too bad.
Having a happy family is strong backing for you so that you have more time, a better mentality to work hard.
Imagine every day spending time arguing on the daily small matter, this will consume a lot of mental power, and you won’t have the energy to work hard on your career.
Enrich yourself, improve your ability, be grateful, grasp the future, have a strong back from the family, such a person has no reason not to succeed!
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