In many ways it is on yourself as a person, if you are honest and speak the truth from day 1 then the issues are then on those you interact with also being honest and speaking the truth, interpretation of written words or even spoken words comes under the heading is it the truth or just shades of the truth. Without being in the presence of another we miss the clues that visual would be giving us so we learn to read the person by not just the words used but also from those not used.
In a perfect world there would be no issues. I deal with both worlds from the same standpoint of what God says: I can forgive the sinner but not the sin and go from there in my dealings with them. Staying unbiased in the drama being created by trolls/haters is a study in having faith in God's will that his shield is around me. Do I believe each and every story told? Nope. The gift from God on discernment is having the wisdom given me in walking away from all in the jungle of lies and letting God handle it as he sees fit.
I can control how I respond and react, what I can't control is how another does the same. Shared...