Ability to simply ignore or say "NO" will lead to controlling your own destiny.

Imagine you are sitting in a blue car but not like that doggy, you know exactly what you are doing. Phew!

Now, car is equal to your destiny and controlling the wheel means controlling your own destiny. Your car goes exactly where YOU want it to go if you control it, right?

Moving on, this blue vehicle has many passengers sitting next to you like fear, doubt, cigarettes, alcohol and so on (harmful habits or emotions, stereotypes) just to name a few. And fear consistently talks to you (just like any other of the passengers might): "Hey, let me take that wheel, I know exactly where we should go, Friend! You seem frustrated, chill out."

What happens if you let fear take over the wheel? It means you let fear take control over your destiny.

Every time before you make that choice remember that your destiny is all YOURS and no one, no thing can EVER take control over it unless you let that happen.