I had the Privilege of speaking somewhere this past week and i was talking about people who makes provisions of leaving houses and wealth for their children/grandchildren. It's the most foolish thing... Reasons; every child comes into this world with a brain and God has granted every child ingenuity. When you provide everything your child needs, you know what happens? You stunt the growth of your child, you deny the world that unique gift that the child was to bring to the world. When you build houses for your child and make provisions for a comfortable life for your child what happens?
The gift and the natural talents the child comes into the world with... They remain dormant!!
It's a serious issue because those who have accomplished the most in this world at anytime during any generation are not people whose parent provided properties/wealth for.... Hope someone's with me???
Today, properties/wealth is been created when a smart child in his father's garage takes a laptop and develop apps. They're among the richest people in the world isn't it? What did the father provide for those one? "EDUCATION" and the child uses what he came into the world with, the intelligence he came into the world with... Every child came into this world with intelligence and there's something unique, something unique about every child that there's no other human being like WILSON LYON. That's the way God creates us
There's no duplicate; you can try to be like someone else but not exactly.. There are gifts one posses that no other human has/posses and there are gift that no other person possess.. It was not planted in your head.
So, if a parent spoils a child by providing everything for that child, you know what it does? It not only denies that child the opportunity of exploring and developing his/her talents but it denies the world the opportunity of getting what was suppose to come through each child and that's why the wise people of the world make psych provisions for their children.. They train their children and allow their children to blossom in the world. This now made me to term it as "the most ungodly act of a parent".
Those who does this are people who came out of poverty, people who grew from grass to grace and showed showed his goodness by letting them achieve things and they nice decide saying that they suffered in their life time so their children will not suffer.. Well, you suffered in your life and you didn't die but became wise right? Now your children will not suffer so they will become foolish..