The only thing that will make you happy is being happy with who you are, and not who people think you are.
Many of us forget who we really are and only focus on comparing ourselve and our lifestyles to others. Need me to be candid? The thing is this affect us in ways we cannot understand or even explain. Being happy with who you are is the secret to eventualy become who you actually want to be.
You are sad today because you are riding a 2005 model Toyota Camry while your colleagues or friends are riding 2018 G Wagon. Have you taken a moment to think about those who could only afford to ride an old tricycle?
You are sad today because you could only manage to own a tricycle while your friends are riding some cars. Have you taken a moment to think about those that could only manage to own a badly used motorcycle?
You are sad today because you could ony manage to own an old model motorcyce. What should those that are walking long distance on their bare legs do?
And you? You are unhappy because you only walk around with your bare legs while your friends are at least riding a bike. Okay, you are not suggesting that those that are wheelchairs should commit suicide because they could not even walk, are you?
Or you are sad because you are on wheelchair. I understand how you fel dear. But are you actually suggesting that those that are in coma or are dead commited sins more than you do? Afterall what got you on wheelchair has killed some people.
The thing no matter the condition you meet yourself in life, you are in a better shape compared to others. The only way you can understand and appreciate God's favour towards your life is being happy for who you are and being grateful for what HE has done for you.
Remember, the best gift God could have given you is LIFE. Value it. Look at those below you and not those above you. With that, you will undersand what God has done for you. and you wuill eventually be happy for who you are and not who people wnat you to be.