We should self-reflect often on who we are as a person.
Sometimes we don't even know that we're the toxic in someone's life or what we're doing is not necessarily right or there are things that are imbalance.
Along with that, self-reflection brings some type of grounding and connection to your true, inner self.
And that's where the answers lie to your questions.
There is light and magical power within you.
You can fully realize and control that by learning more about yourself.
TIPS HOW TO SELF-REFLECT
♛Write Your Weekly & Monthly Goals
Sometimes in a short amount of time, we can't really see the whole image of what we're doing, thinking, or feeling in a few days.
But if you look back in the long run by looking back weeks or months ago, you can see the person that you were.
Write what you want to improve or change on in a notebook.
Writing is very powerful since energy is what creates your reality.
Reflect what you've done in those times with honesty.
♛Write what you would like to change or improve on in Present Tense form
Why? So the things you want can come now instead of it always lying in the future.
Read what you have written everyday in the morning and before you go to bed, when you're in a sleepy state because that thought will transfer into your subconscious mind.
The subconscious mind is connected to the divine power that can create the reality that you want.
But don't say the words in a nonchalant way.
Speak it in demand, really mean it, & have faith in it.
It really matters what you think and feel so learn to rewire your mind and believe in your words as if it's already happening.
That's how you can manifest the reality that you want.
♛Create Your Vision Board
It's a helpful tool to manifest the things you want into your physical realm.
"A vision board is a visualization tool which refers to a board of any sort used to build a collage of words and pictures that represent your goals and dreams. "
You can gather images and put it in your phone in the gallery section, you can write it down on a piece of paper, have a pin board where you can paste the things you want there, and so many options more.
Whatever benefits you for you to see it everyday, use that.
♛Be Humble and Honest with Yourself
If you always think that you're right and you judge people on how they should live their life, you won't attract positivity and true happiness.
Focus on yourself and don't worry about anybody else.
Don't be a ruler that breaks instead be flexible and open to all the possibilities around you.
You may not agree to certain things, but they exist and sometimes it works out so be open to all your flaws and strengths.
Just do what works best for you.
"What is inside of you is the reality outside of you."
People are different so they have different worlds they live in by their experiences.
How would you create your reality?
You are in control of your life.
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The past few months it's been a hell of a ride but I learned a lot from it and it developed my growth as a person.
Just like any human being, I made many mistakes and felt very guilty at times that it hinders me to move forward.
Thinking like, "Do I deserve to be happy and keep going?"
"Should I not do this so they don't have to see me?"
& etc.
But I know if I continue to go on with those negative feelings and thoughts, I would sink into darkness.
I also wouldn't be able to give back to the people that have done so much for me so I can't give up on myself.
Through these ups and downs, it's what makes life valuable, though it doesn't feel that way at times.
Things won't last forever so the bad times will eventually past and the sun will rise again.
It's the process that counts and what will tell your legend.
Cherish it and have fun living your life with no regrets.
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