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Sometimes decisions are taken for the betterment of humanity. We might take decision to better others but they might not see it that way even when you try to explain to them but only you know why you had to go that way. When I was little, my mum used to advice me always and it got to an extent, I found the advice boring because she keeps ringing the same over and over again. I did not realise the goodness in her words but only noticed it is going against my principles. I was too young to understand but she do and she knows with time, I will realise it someday. That was the reason most of our parents go easy on us.
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Now we are older, we sit and think about the words of our parents and how some of those advice helped to reshaped us and the essence of it. I sometimes say God bless you Mama because if she was not there to put me in the right direction, I would not be here, I probably be on the street without knowing my focus in life.
We should learn not to criticize people always for their decisions, with time you will notice you achieved alot just because of that person but you might still be angry with him but it is all for the best.