Dating is hard. Finding someone you like is relatively easy — there are seven billion people in the world after all. But finding someone you like who is also attracted to you? Really hard.
Or is it?
Could it be that we make the chicken race of finding a partner seem more difficult than it actually it is? I mean, it seems that way to me.
The process of courting is pretty simple: find someone attractive, see if they're attracted to you, talk with them, take them out on a few dates and from there you follow whatever relationship trajectory you're into.
No, you say, there's something missing from that formula.
It's something vital...meaning perhaps it's that special sauce that one guy has or those honeyed words that flow like a river from your best friend's mouth.
It's the reason why you struggle to keep a conversation going whereas your friend is already tapping his number into her smartphone. The divider between the lotion, the screen and the latex dream.
It's called game. And you only need a little of it to get by.
A wise man once said: "If you want to make her fall in love make her laugh."
He must've been a very wise man, because a hundred years later, this still reigns true. The only thing holding you back is yourself man. Once you realize your own self-confidence, you allow yourself to figure out how everything else too can fall in place.
So remember: 99% of guys aren't born charismatic; they mold themselves to be through social experience. And you can too!
Here are some tips on how attract girls & make yourself noticeable to them:
🌬 Take care of yourself and your hygiene to build your confidence. By being the best version of yourself, you attract the best for yourself.
😤 Relax! It's very common to be anxious but if you feel awkward during every conversation, consider for a moment that most people are worried about themselves 95% of the time.
😅 Humor is your best friend. It's the easiest way to make a girl feel comfortable with you and can help connect you with her in deeper, chiller conversations.
😳 During your conversations with her, actually listen to her. Women can tell if your paying attention or not. It helps to keep a conversation going and actually make it interesting — not just a weird ol' starefest.
👀 👋 Don't be overly attached to the outcome of your flirting. You need to make it clear to her that she's not the only girl interested in you, without coming off as a douchebag.
😉 Be you, but the more cooler, charismatic, alluring version of you
Remember, the best way to become a natural at this is to naturally force yourself out of your comfort zone over and over again and build experience doing so.
Charisma is the ability to influence without logic or intelligence. Find yours.
Hi, I'm @YYLIB. I write funny and helpful stories and also stories about space & technology.
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