WHY I DO NOT REDUCE THE CHILD ...
M., now a 1-and-2-year-old boy.
Everything started at 5-6l when M., being a "plagiarous" little boy and agitated with his tablet, more precisely the songs on the tablet, and today 10 minutes (as I make a pee) tomorrow 20 (as I do with the vacuum cleaner) (as long as they do food) and so on, until my baby got to sit and 3 hours a day on the tablet, the tv opened NON stop, if it was not a safe tablet it was tv and so the state grows up in front of the screens ... at 3 to ... 5-7 hours.
What happened, my child did not answer when I called him, did not understand when I asked him something, he could not pull me the blouse when he wanted me, he did not look in my eyes, he did not ask for help, he did not hear us (but when it was his favorite advertisement, he came with the utmost speed to see him, which we, as idiots and ignorant parents, amused us so much "how sweet our baby is when he comes so fast to see his ad") did not play with we were bored fast and "demanded" (weeping) the tablet / tv, almost nothing of what it was normal to do at his age (I asked here, group, your children, if they do at his age and the majority the answers were ... "not all children are the same" "no longer compare", "children develop differently" etc. the worst advice and information ... from a "heap" of answers DOUA mi ' have given thought ... "you keep your TV open" and "really kids are but some things are not just about development, some things have to be done by any child at his age "and thank you, ladies!) having no interaction with children of his vastness, I did not know what would be normal development, but I was reading every month about the things a baby has to do, and since the 10th has appeared ... the "delays", the first month when we noticed, we may have been slower, not all do the same "but from in the second month I triggered an alarm signal, I asked and started to wonder ... I found out that my child's reactions were in the spectrum of AUTISM, namely, AUTISM
VIRTUAL, awful, cruel, in that second I shut down the TV, the tablet, the phone, my baby was INTOXY with the virtual.
For 5 days TV in our house is just a black box, since then my baby has changed almost radically, laughs, looks at us in the eyes, pulls us when he wants something, pulls me on the blouse when the titi, is playing (2 times out of 10, here we have to work here) learned to do bravo, to do like the Indians (aa, to see, so many things that he did not do before ... (we still have a lot of work to do, but big changes are seen from these 5 days) in a few days we have a pediatric appointment, we will find out exactly what is to do and act ...
For the time of silence, where I could do my job (cooking, washing, stretching clothes, skimping, packing, washing windows, wiping dust, brushing the carpet, vacuuming, washing dishes, clean the fridge, wash the terrace, wash the dog, change the bedding, let it, ...) now pay the price ... I hope you can help my story, my lesson of life, do not like me, dear ones. And I knew it was not good to leave it on the tablet, but I did not know the consequences, I did not give it that much, and I did a lot with it (how will I do much to do the job) hard and obese, and when I was talking I was saying that "I do not leave him very much on the tablet / tv" ...
I'm gonna pray: do not pull my ears ... I know where I'm wrong and more than I do not hurt anyone from my baby.
Give yourself a Up, because of such information aven needs for a group of mothers, not about "how well do we understand with the mother-in-law". Maybe a child "saves" because of my post, maybe other mothers get an alarm signal, can really help someone.