Show as yourself
Everyone has a unique nature and personality, which is a gift or has gone through the process of learning and experience.
In the social life in which the interaction occurs stout we encounter various kinds of characters and there are positive there are also negative. A subversive perspective on negative behavior leads to conflict between individuals and if prolonged conflict is detrimental.
In social relationships, presenting ourselves is not a negative thing but that is where our identity is actualized so that others will be easy to characterize and easily recognize us. If we are exaggerating then we will get negative justification.
Do not be afraid to appear, because we are part of the community, we are not aliens who just stop by for a moment.