"You're 28 years old. Please, getting married. In your age, everybody got married, excepting you". Those are complained by my mom. That's a prejudice in almost Vietnamese thought.
In my countryside, people don't want to do some things differently due to nobody did those things. They afraid others will comment their actions negatively. It seems they live for others, not for themselves.
Living in prejudiced social is not easy. To be yourself, you must close your eyes and ears to avoid all of bad externals influence to your thinking. Sometimes, you make your lovers hurt.