Such moments attract attention the most in crowded environments. Imagine going to a bar or disco. While everyone is dancing with their spouses and partners, you watch the surroundings. You dream, you look around, but you can't see anyone. There is no one to dance with you. That's when you hate being your lie. You suffer, this pain hurts you so much. You can't stand being there for a while and want to leave. Or you just stay there and want the dance to end as soon as possible.