Hi Everyone in here~
Today I want to talk about 'Loneliness' with you guys and share our stories!
As the time goes, our life is becoming more comfortable and technology is developing. BUT! Do you think that technology for connection between human-beings are also developing?
In some ways, Yes. In some ways, No.
Why Yes?
There're so many mobile messengers. Wherever you are, you can send a message and call someone.
Why No?
Some of you feel like you're alone even if you're with your friends. Basically, there're some barriers between people. It's natural! Because all of you have absolutely different family backgrounds and suffered from various situations respectively. In spite of this, actually we can have a true-conversation!(Not pretending like you're cool)
The problem is this : When you have a conversation with someone, you feel like most of people are shit. Because they're hiding themselves and pretending they're cool! You have to understand this first. Let's put the case that you just met someone and had a chance to have a conversation with her/him. And She/He is keep talking about other people's lifestyle being a little bit elegant. If you're old you, you might think : "Another shit. Leave me alone. Let me just listen to music."
But you after this post : Everyone has a history. She/He also might have some history! So that person is talking about other people's lifestyle or something!" Then you just smile.
I never meant to understand everyone's history and be patient unconditionally! I mean just listen to people's difficulty.
You might think : I'm tired enough! How can I listen to other people not dealing with even myself?
Oh dear. The more you're suffering from your life, the more you have to listen. When life is so hard and you're feeling lonely, you need some way to figure out your problem. And do you think that you can deal with your problem just lying in your bed and spending the night alone?
You need various advice for yourself. And the people who you called "shit" might give you impressive advice. You can learn from them.
Then you can deal with your life-matter. And Suddenly, someone comes to you unexpectedly! Some you need comes to you when you love yourself and don't really want your twin-flames.
Just be happy and healthy. Then you'll meet someone.
And finally you're say : I'm not alone!
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Stay healthy, Stay happy!