Ghosting for those of you who haven’t experienced it yet, is having someone that you believe cares about you, whether it is a friend or someone more than that. You feel a deep connection, and you know this one is going to last.
Then it stops.
It disappeared without any explanation at all. No phone calls, a text, and not even their shadow. You feel shut out and confused. What on earth is going on?
Tada! He’s ghosting you mah girl.
The reason why this method is increasing is that it is the easy way out. So, instead of a fast, clear, “Sorry, it’s over,” they use this tactics and assume you’ll get the message sooner or later.
It’s a horrible and indeed a terrible feeling. Like you’ve hit a rigid object. Can you imagine how it hurts? You are confused, sad, annoyed and angry all at the same time. You hate him. You love him. You hate him more. You need to know what you did or said. You want to know why he said all those positive things and then gradually disappeared or worst, suddenly stopped. It is human nature to want to know why this happened. And you need to know what to do about it.
Whether you’re a normal ghoster, or feel like all you do is get ghosted (hahaha), we’re all in this dating game together. We are all in the stage of trying to find someone that we can hang out with and who will listen to our everyday dramas. Someone we can be seriously be with for the rest of our lives. So please, let us all be honest. If a relationship isn’t working any longer, we need to man (or woman) up and tell the person right to their face.
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