I love you.
…but I don’t feel comfortable with myself…
That doesn’t change my Love at all.
Don’t say that. That makes me afraid…
There is nothing you need to change. You are welcome to be the way you are.
That feels way too intense!
What do you fear, my Love?
I’m afraid of your expectations
I have none, sweetheart.
…but I can’t fulfill them... I can’t give you something, that I don’t have myself…
Oh dear, you don’t have to work on yourself. There is nothing missing in you and nothing asked of you.
That’s overwhelming…I can’t handle that…
I know. It can sometimes feel scary. I share all your fears. I also fear to be not enough. That I can’t be for you, what you want me to be.
I don’t know how to trust that. I don’t want to be responsible and be absorbed by this Love
What do you fear to lose?
My personality! My individuality! My right to say NO and respect my borders!
Yes, I hear you… and again, I share these fears. Its scary to think that way.
These are very real dangers….
But why do you do it anyway??
I’m glad, that you finally ask…
I’m taking all these risks, because….
I dare to Love!