Most people know what a healthy relationship should look like, but most people don't know how to build it. Although, there are no perfect relationship,every relationship has ups and downs. Perfect relationships can only be found in movies, but that does not mean you should not build a healthy relationship with your spouse. Building a healthy relationship can increase your performance at work, because you are always happy. Believe me, nothing kills a man faster than a broken home or relationship. Keeping an unhealthy relationship opens the door of depression and sadness. The feeling of loving and being love in return is priceless. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.
So let's get to the point these are ways to build a healthy relationship.
- Attention: you can't have a plant and not water it, you can't have a pet and not feed it, same as you can't have a partner and not give them attention. You can't be in relationship and act like you are still single. Lack of attention kills relationship faster than other thing, that was why I made it number one on my list. If you are not giving your relationship enough attention, it would die slowly like a plant lacking sunlight. Even if your partner is not complaining, it's killing them slowly and breaking their heart. Women love attention a lot, especially when it's coming from someone they truly love.
- Good communication: learn to communicate with your partner. Don't expect your partner to know what is on your mind, her or she is not a magician. If there is anything your partner is doing that you are not comfortable with, learn to vocalize it. Never make the mistake of talking to your partner when you are angry, because if you had the opportunity to record what you said when you were angry you would know that you fucked up. Never criticise you partner in an insulting way. Take this two example of a guy named Jack talking to his woman
Jack: babe, those clothes don't look good on
you, you look like an old woman
This totally a wrong way to correct your partner about what she is wearing. Instead try something like this
Jack: babe, you know I truly love you and i
would not like my angel putting on a cloth
that doesn't look good on her. Honestly,babe
these clothes don't fit my angel.
She would know that you are a real man and not a boy who would criticise her in an annoying way. - Respect: learn to respect your partner. we all have our boundaries, and that's what defines us. Learn to respect your partner boundaries. Before you get into a relationship with a person you should make sure that you can cope with the type of boundaries a person have. I once meet a girl that hates kissing, I never tagged her unromantic but I knew it was her life so I could not force her to be who she is not. Respecting your partner boundary is the first sign of maturity in a relationship.
- Romance: Romance is the spice of every relationship. Learn to tell your partner how much you love them. Tell them in a calm low tune, how much you love them.
I hope these helps you to build the healthy relationship you always desired. Always remember, there is no perfect relationship.
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