What is true love and how do we find it. Only if you look into your heart and honestly know you love somebody. I have been married 20 years and I don't regret one year of it. I think we are at a crux in the United States and the world where love is becoming a rare commodity very fast. When I examine my relationship with my wife I see a continuous work in progress and a love that grows deeper each and everyday. Why, you may wonder, well I see love as a challenge, something that is a goal to be accomplished. It's like any other important project that must be completed and finished with perfection. Now I would like to equate this to the world, where you don't see much love anymore just a lot of hate. I think leaders in the world must begin to see that real strength comes when people respect each other and go out of their way to extend courtesy, respect and love to one another. I believe success in a marriage comes when we acknowledge that the other person deserves better than what we have experienced in our own lives. My wife deserves better than what I have experienced in my own life. So I seek to make sure that she receives the best. Stay tuned for more. ( Cleo the husband )