…continued… from part 1 and part 2
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.
When you are focused on a particular person or thing in your life, you are blinded to other things and your focus is magnified. When this happens, it clouds your judgement and you tend to accept anyhow you are treated; forgetting you deserve better.
3. Power of agreement:
Can two people walk together except they agreed? You can’t easily get along with someone without power of agreement. I may not always agree with you but I will respect your view. Ability to find a common ground is vital.
You both need to be speaking the same language; meaning you both need to have some common understanding that will shape your home. How do you marry someone who believes your life is mainly in the kitchen and deep down you already know you are never the sit-at-home kind of lady. Such differing opinion means you already know what the problem would be ahead except you know you are ready to bend.
Constantly seek to be on the same page with your partner. Seek for a partner that you have the same perspective at least, on some certain issues. Marriage doesn’t succeed in marriage; marriage succeeds before marriage.
4. Likeness:
You are not expected to marry someone you don’t like or you are not attracted to. There is a part attractiveness plays in marriage or a relationship especially in the place of romance too. Why would you want to marry someone whose touch irritates you??? Attention also brings affections and when you notice you have interacted with someone and you still don’t like him or her, it is wise to let the person go without battling an eyelid. Your singleness is not a disease except you see it like that anyway. If you let the person go, you will always attract another. Just work on yourself too.
…to be continued…
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.