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I have a friend. She is the new friend I mentioned several weeks ago. I said that I don’t meet people by mistake and I talked about her about that. I knew there would be a reason why I met her and now I have found the many reasons.
She is the type that feels she needs to be in a relationship so she won’t be lonely. She calls herself a loner and I would never blame her at all because her background contributed so much to it. She is such an adorable soul and I love her. A lot needs to be done for her and I pray for strength to do that.
She is not single by choice, but by circumstance, so that is why her boyfriend acts anyhow because she is defined by this guy. The guy would act up and she would be the one running after him because she doesn’t want to be all alone by herself. It is a bad state for anyone to be in. I said in the last chapter that, in a relationship, no one should be at the mercy of the other.
When you go into a relationship, go into it not to fill a void, but because you know you have the capacity to love another, knowing full well that you have loved yourself first.
If you are not capable of loving yourself, how can you be capable of loving another? It takes only an understanding partner not to take advantage of your insecurities and lack of self-love.
There was a time this guy blocked her on all social media and she still felt it was her fault. I was really angry with her on that. This is what not loving yourself enough cause.
It is not so much in having a partner, but in being happy. What usually causes this, is the pressure from the society who look at people differently when they hear they are not in a relationship.
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.