Love is a powerful force that is capable of making us feel incredible and great. Sometimes we do things we never thought we could do all in the name of love. Love is really that strong and powerful.
I learned this phrase while growing up in a song; ”When the wrong one loves you right” and I am completely talking away from the song and trying to analyze the words as they appear. To me, I feel there is no wrong person. Just because you don’t feel a particular way towards someone doesn’t make them wrong. We often feel they are wrong because we lacked the capacity to wait and we are already hooked with someone before we started seeing the good that could come out from the person we now tagged as ‘wrong’.
We often tag the other person as wrong when we don’t feel the same way or agree with them on a personal level. The person you deemed as wrong is a perfect fit for another person and another person would do just about anything for this person you feel is wrong. To me, there is no wrong person, because a wrong person cannot love you right.
We love in parts sometimes and what now happens when that person you tagged as wrong now finally break through to your heart and your love blossoms? That suddenly made them right now because you are now on the same page, reading the same book? The difference in love opinion and wrong timing doesn’t mean something is wrong with the other person, often times we are the ones who have failed to see the good in the person. No one can be wrong and then love you right.
When your heart is not ready, everything feels wrong, even the love you receive from people you never thought could be capable of loving you. Maybe, just maybe you need to heal more and see clearly. Everything we believe in is a matter of our opinion and perception which is characterized by our exposure and background. Everyone is peculiar, we are all imperfect, and we should stop looking for perfectness in imperfect beings when we are clearly imperfect too. We just need to see with the right perspective and stop blaming others for our wrong choices. In every relationship, patience is very vital.
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn’t bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love’s chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today: doctor’s order.