I'm going to share a recent humiliation with all of you. I went out on a first date last night with someone I met online through a dating website. We messaged back and forth on the site for about a week and after exchanging phone numbers we texted for about a week. We decided to set up the first date at a nice restaurant last night and we had a great time. There was plenty of laughing and flirting. After dinner ended I walked her to her car with my arm around her shoulder, she seemed to enjoy that and kind of leaned her head onto me. We got to her car, we both said we had a great time, we were looking each other in the eyes, and with my hands on her hips I went in for the first kiss... She turned to the side and I gently kissed her on the cheek.
She was giving me all of the signs associated with wanting a kiss but I ultimately got denied. It felt a little awkward but I brushed it off and this morning sent her a cute, flirtatious text. She responded favorably and we set up a second date for next week. So I want to ask the community and I urge everyone to comment below with any advice... Should I have gone in for the first kiss on the first date, or is that something that should always wait until a second or third date? For the women out there, do you want to be kissed on the first date if you are feeling good chemistry?
I welcome all advice (and criticism) so I can be better prepared for the next time. Plus... I don't know if I should go in for a kiss again on the next date. Thanks in advance everyone!!
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