Yesterday, I chatted with my friends late into the night, one of which was our understanding of love.
He said: "The love in my own eyes is the process of accomplishing each other. We are willing to make ourselves work harder towards the end of each other's heart. We also respect each other and respect each other's rights as human beings. We may be in life. There will be friction, but the process of dealing with these frictions is the love in my eyes. I have found it, and I am still enjoying it."
I said: "The love in my eyes is from individuals who are independent of each other. They have corresponding fantasies in each other's brains. This is called love. I think love is more ethereal and I feel that I have caught it, but how The process that can't be grasped, and we are like each other, this is the love in my eyes."
Obviously, the love in his eyes is more pragmatic, and the love in my eyes is more ethereal. However, no matter how we define love, there is nothing wrong with it. The feeling of love is precisely the state that is not there, what you think in your heart, that is the love in your eyes.
In the relatively common cognition, love can be companionship with each other, but it can be greasy with each other, it can be mutual understanding, it can be mutual care, or it can be a small deer chaos and passion.
In the absence of a great category of love, given a relative boundary, love can be a variety of expressions, but there must be an object, even if the object is supposed to be imaginary.
What does it feel like to love someone? It is to unilaterally strip the love we mentioned above, and even won't get a response, but still feel happy in it. This is love. If we love the feeling of being alone, what we are looking forward to, let love become less pure.
Love is a unilateral giving, no matter what it is given, this is the way of love, from the heart, from the mind. Once such a giving, after receiving the corresponding response, it becomes love. If you don't receive a response, or if the response you receive is not a positive feedback, such love is often called unrequited love.
I often receive some private messages, they will ask me: "How do you know if the other person likes me?" or ask: "How to make the other party love me more and more?"
Will you think about such a problem when you love someone?
I think it seems that there is some deviation, and the feeling of loving someone is not as satisfying as the other side is around.
Forgot where I saw a little story, the general content is: One day I asked a child, what is love. He told me that love is a puppy licking your hand. I will smile, then he said, even if you don't want him.
After reading it, I felt my eyes sour. It turned out that we have become extremely greedy in our emotional life. Too often, we still want to want it again. More often, even if we don't say it, the other party will still give it. I believe that the other person loves us, but we really love each other, which is hard to say.
Because we are always asking, endless, and never given anything.
If we want to say that we love each other, then let's think together about a scene, you will be happy because you have a meal for the other party, no matter how the other party responds, or because you have made a meal for the other party. Rice, the positive feedback from the other party makes you happy?
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