I know what you think I would say is #1. Beauty and also that she is sexy. Beauty is a given but it is also in the eye of the beholder. If you showed 100 men 10 different pictures of women you would get a range of different opinions about who is beautiful and and sexy and who is not. So yes, beauty and sexiness are important to a man, but his idea of beautiful is not something we can pinpoint.
Honest
Honesty is a quality that is consistently sought by every man looking for a serious relationship. Honesty means that the woman is trustworthy. Relationships are all about trust. You have to be able to count on this person with your keys, your secrets and your love and you need to know that she will care for them at her highest ability. Also you want to know that she is honest with you when she tells you things. If a man has to always worry about his woman’s character, he will never be happy with her. This is even if she is the most beautiful woman in the world.
Respectful
How a woman presents herself to people that are in their circle is very important. A man wants to know that his woman is respectful when it is appropriate and that she has no problem humbling herself when it is the right things to do. This particularly includes things like social media where so many women have different personalities from their real lives. No man wants to have his woman constantly engaged in back and forth with strangers and using profanity and downgrading others to get her point across.
Affectionate
Most men are physical and love physicality. For this reason they appreciate a woman who is not afraid to initiate touch. Just like women love, we want a woman to reach out and grab our hand; we want for you to come over and kiss us randomly; we want for you to hug us and ask us how our day was. It makes feel love and wanted.
Give me your opinion in the comments about whether you agree, disagree, or want to add something else.