I'm glad to see you're doing so well and have a lot of followers, !
Of course you're right about all society's bullshit about marriage. I thought of marriage as a day-long party to celebrate our finding each other and being so happy. We did a few things our parents would enjoy and the rest was based on aesthetics and our own tastes. Legal and religious contracts have absolutely no meaning to me so I don't give them any thought.
The only real reason to write up a contract is to decide how to transfer assets to your children, which you can just do with a living will.
RE: REPOST 1/10: Why I don't wear a wedding ring - philosophy and advice for my children