People seem to fall so easily in and out of Love these days. Some of the saddest moments I come across are break-ups or divorce tales, usually of celebrities after a heavily celebrated love affair. I feel love and hate has come to be associated with common actions such as talking or walking. Love runs deeper than that, it is bigger than the urge to have sex or the need for comfort and security. It is supposed to be an all encompassing experience.
Take the love a parent feels for their Offspring. There are no good or bad days, no divorce or break ups, no boredom or wanting out over a minor disagreement, the love endures through thick and thin.
Am not saying couples should stay in an abusive relationship in the name of love, rather my point is before anyone decides they're in love, there's a need to properly scrutinize their feelings.
Eventually, we may need to change the definition of love or redefine what the base of a relationship should be on going forward. Don't spoil love for the rest of us, but hey, am just voicing my opinion here.
This rant was first conceived a few days ago after a couple I idolized decided to call it quits.