From the most remote times, the human mind has been accustomed to living in an environment driven by feelings and also by the most diverse forms of supposed love that the human being might be able to experience. When one says something about love, we think of hearts, flowers, chocolates, cursilies, a very deep feeling among other things. If we search the Internet we find that it is an "intense feeling of the human being that, starting from his own insufficiency, needs and seeks union with another being" ...
Okey for all is a feeling, but not many, the practical, and not many want it in their lives, there are even people who do not know what love is as such. However, the theme of this essay is within the reach of the love of the couple, the one who can do everything, the world waits anxiously and can represent, at the same time, the best and worst of our lives.
But, what is love? - There are many concepts about love, however there is no universal concept that satisfies all aspects of this typical word. Apparently, there is always an article that can write on their backs, a writer narrates in his novels, a musician delivers in his melodies, a dancer who expresses it through his dance or even someone who is not allowed to be carried away by a feeling unusual
This is why we can only establish that there are points that help us to have a better understanding of all this swirl of ideas that we receive daily from our own environment. However, most people who say they need help to know what love really is. And, it is precisely the theme of this essay, since many people claim to have been in love and explained, or give you advice to face situations linked to love. But are you sure that all those people have really fallen in love? My opinion would be no. It is enough the huge number of couples who claim to be in love and the next day they end their relationship for reasons that are absolutely contradictory with the basic conception that we all have of love.
Many times we think we are in love, however it is very common to meet people for whom we feel a strong attraction that is often confused with love. Even sometimes we fall without realizing it, in a kind of obsession that inevitably reaffirms us the same erroneous idea of which we are victims as human beings.
The most frequent question we can ask ourselves would be: How to know that we are in love? The answer can be difficult to find, since we are all different, we have different tastes, opinions many people say that one does not know because they fall in love, they just do it and already, there are many existing conceptions; It only remains for us to cling to the most logical and in a certain way relate it to the enormous social and psychological importance that the concept of love implies.
Without delving too much into deceptive sentimentality, we can start from the premise that love at first sight does not exist or at least I do not believe in it. Since, we can suppose that what we experience in a situation like that, is simply a great admiration for a person whose appearance we find tremendously attractive. What can not be denied, is that it is very likely that this is the first step of falling in love, but it does not mean that by its physique we already find love itself. If we would think more, we would reach the conclusion that even the senses play an extremely important role in the process of falling in love. We all know that without minimal physical attraction, it is impossible to reach such fundamental feelings for a couple. And it is not only the vision that gives us the basis of physical attraction. The smell of the skin, the sound of the voice until you touch that person. They are factors that are inevitably part of the process. However, as mentioned above, these feelings are far from representing the essence of love, although we can give them importance to start a relationship.
To love, you need a relatively broad knowledge of a person. Not in the sense of their tastes, ideals, but their way of being, that is, their personality, their attitudes to different situations, their character, etc. These are the true qualities that determine a really powerful attraction that can lead to a more meaningful sensation. We currently live in a world where people care more about their physique, and do not realize how I said before their tastes, their personality, their attitudes and their character.
There are key situations that allow us to have certain indications of a satisfactory response to the possibility of love. For example, many times we try to remember that person that interests us and we can not visualize his face, however, our feelings and feelings of admiration do not change at all. This indicates that the most important thing is not your appearance, but your inner essence.
Although I do not know much about this topic, and have little experience due to my young age, I know that I do not walk with him just to look for someone to know what love is, or to know what it is to feel to fall in love with someone, I just let my life flow, after all, love will come when it has to come.
Finally, it is important to emphasize that the great question that we have already analyzed, does not mean anything if we consider that the same importance of the word love leads us to the conclusion that the doubts about whether we are in love or not, only confirm that we do not we're. Because before a true situation of falling in love, the human mind always knows with certainty when the moment has arrived. And if Socrates said at some point "I only know that nothing is", we can only argue with great certainty, that the human mind always knows what it feels.
