The rate at which people marry these days is
quite alarming.
A young man told his father that he wanted to get
married. The father laughed and asked him if he
was really ready for marriage,he said YES! Hours
later, his mother served his favourite soup and
asked him to come and eat. But before he sat
down to eat, his father sent him on an errand
opposite their house leaving his food on the table
outside. He rushed quickly and came back to eat
because he was so hungry. As he ran back home
with all excitement to eat the food,he saw his
father's dogs eating his food. "Sha!!!!!!" He shouted
but unfortunately,the dogs have already finished
his food.Angrily,he took a big stick and struck one
of the dogs and it died.
His father looked at him and said "son you are not
ready for marriage!"
Sweet hearts,if you can't control your temper,sit
down,you are not ready for marriage.If you can't
forgive no matter what your spouse did to
you,relax,you are not ready for marriage.
Most times,I ask myself "how does this lady (my
wife) live with me?" Because I have so many
faults. Most times too,she ask herself "how does
this man live with me despite my faults?"
Well,it's all about forgiveness and understanding.
You can never get a perfect man or perfect
woman. You can never marry a man or woman
who wouldn't get on your nerve.
The secret to a successful marriage however is
forgiveness,tolerance and understanding.