Dear Woman...
Not every man is a Husband material.
Some are friendzone materials.
Some are Boyfriend materials.
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Some are sex mate materials.
Some are baby-papa materials.
Some are husband materials
Some are father materials
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Marry a Man that is a Brother, Husband and
Father.
Some of you, get into marriage with men who
have no business being married.
Marriage is not for everybody.
.
Some men are not wired to function in
matrimony.
Don't allow marriage desperation or societal
pressure to push you into the arms of a man
who
is not ready or suited for matrimony.
Look around you, most men get married just for
the status. Those are the men that marry wives
and keep for their mothers and fathers to look
after.
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I have seen men who married wives and
travelled out of the country for 5, 6 and even 7
years without coming home to see their wives.
I mean what is that?
You shouldn't be theoretically married. Marriage
must be practical.
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Some men are very selfish. Take this from me, a
selfish man can never be a good husband.
Matrimony thrives on mutualism. It is a give-and-
take situation.
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Don't marry a man because you are pregnant for
him.
Don't marry him because he deflowered you.
Don't marry him because you are unemployed.
Don't marry him because you've dated him for
long.
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Don't marry him because you invested in him
financially.
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Marry him because you believe he is worthy of
being called your Husband and the father of your
unborn kids.
There are men everywhere but Husbands are
scarce.
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I pray for you yet to be married: you will not
experience marriage bondage. And for that feel
you've made a mistake, retrace your step, and
rededicate your marriage to God.
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God is faithful and readyto help you and he will
help you out in Jesus' name!
Note : if you are a man reading this post don't
make it a gender war. And don't take it personal.
This post is for men. I know there are un-wifable
women but that's a post for another day. Thank
you for your understanding.
God bless.