Hello everyone,
today i want to give you some informations about how you can get interesting for a girl as a man.
Often men are courteous and courting about a girl they like. This is in someway great but don't do it too much, because a girl like to feel this kind of "i can't have him immediately and safe for me". This is really important cause the human psychology works a little more difficult.
We all know the thesis, that we want what we can't have and don't want, what we can have. And this an easy to understand simplification of how it actually works.
This is the first thing, that you have to keep in mind. So show her, that you are interested and get in some conversation with her but afterwards, in case you get her number for example, don't go ahead and write her every day and so on. Just relax and make yourself rare. This will trigger the interest in her, because she will ask herself why you are so suddenly retired somehow.
This is a good first step.
Second step is something, that you have to care of even though you are single or not intended to go for an relationship soon, because this is the basic to stay interesting for a girl.
You have to like your life as it is, because girls don't want a guy that is overwhelmed with his own life and problems. Girls want a strong guy and with strong guy i mean a guy, that knows what he want and is caring his own life and problems, cause girls are searching for someone that is strong and can take care of organisation, kids and all the stuff she could need help with. She needs a strong part she can lie back on. She definitely doesn't want a guy that needs her to lie back on!
So remember 2 basic things:
Make you kind of rare but be there for her anyhow. The balance between those two things is fundamental and makes you staying interesting.
Be strong in your own life, live your life, do your own things, find some hobbies, sports, friends and passions that you share with only yourself. This will give you a better feeling about yourself and makes you more self confident and this makes you interesting aswell.
Last but not least you should take care of you in that way, that you are dressing yourself well, take care of your cosmet. body hygiene, love yourself like you would love her. This is the most important thing.
You have to love and accept yourself, so that you send out this image from you, that girls will see. An image they like about guys. If you have problems to accept yourself, because of different things you don't like at you, start changing them step by step. Don't be afraid of those things if you are thinking it is too much to change. You have time, just start by changing just a little. Step by step you will get where you want to be. The only thing that matters, is that you start!
I hope i could help you guys to be more positive and see the things a little more relaxed :)
Thanks for reading!
Would really appreciate your feedback! :)